Proceedings of the 6th International Seminar on Psychology, ISPsy 2023, 18-19 July 2023, Purwokerto, Central Java, Indonesia

Research Article

The Meaning of Love to The Wife who Thoughts Ta'aruf

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  • @INPROCEEDINGS{10.4108/eai.18-7-2023.2343396,
        author={Dafa Zuhasna Nabila and Dyah Siti Septiningsih and Roro  Setyawati and Imam Faizal Hamzah},
        title={The Meaning of Love to The Wife who Thoughts Ta'aruf},
        proceedings={Proceedings of the 6th International Seminar on Psychology, ISPsy 2023, 18-19 July 2023, Purwokerto, Central Java, Indonesia},
        publisher={EAI},
        proceedings_a={ISPSY},
        year={2024},
        month={2},
        keywords={meaning of love ta’aruf wife social life},
        doi={10.4108/eai.18-7-2023.2343396}
    }
    
  • Dafa Zuhasna Nabila
    Dyah Siti Septiningsih
    Roro Setyawati
    Imam Faizal Hamzah
    Year: 2024
    The Meaning of Love to The Wife who Thoughts Ta'aruf
    ISPSY
    EAI
    DOI: 10.4108/eai.18-7-2023.2343396
Dafa Zuhasna Nabila1,*, Dyah Siti Septiningsih1, Roro Setyawati1, Imam Faizal Hamzah1
  • 1: Universitas Muhammadiyah Purwokerto
*Contact email: dafahasnanabila@gmail.com

Abstract

Ta'aruf is defined as a series of processes introductions between men and women, whether physical or non-physical who have a purpose for marriage. The purpose of marriage to create love feeling. Love is a psychological symptom that dominates in everyone individual behavior that has a positive and constructive form of behavior of good civilization. The wife who has love if the relationship with husband looks happy and prosperous. This situation can be characterized by decreased feelings of anxiety, tension, disappointment, and the emergence of a feeling of satisfaction with all conditions. Research participants used non-probability sampling. The method for collecting data with the sampling technique is snowballing sampling. This research uses the phenomenological analysis method The meaning of love possessed by the wife of a Ta'aruf marriage partner is the emergence of physical attraction and accepting what her husband is and being able to live happily and feel comfortable when she is with her husband. Participants also have trust in their husbands and participants can understand their husband's character well. Participants can even serve and support their husbands in every situation they face. Already have trust in her husband. Based on this conclusion, love is interpreted as the presence of happiness and peace and a way to get closer to Allah SWT.