Research Article
50 Teachings of Household Harmony at “Upacara Panggih” Javanese Style Bridal Ceremony in Yogyakarta
@INPROCEEDINGS{10.4108/eai.29-8-2019.2289022, author={S Dwijonagoro and E Istikomah}, title={50 Teachings of Household Harmony at “Upacara Panggih” Javanese Style Bridal Ceremony in Yogyakarta}, proceedings={Proceedings of the 2nd International Conference on Local Wisdom, INCOLWIS 2019, August 29-30, 2019, Padang, West Sumatera, Indonesia}, publisher={EAI}, proceedings_a={INCOLWIS}, year={2019}, month={10}, keywords={harmony household panggih}, doi={10.4108/eai.29-8-2019.2289022} }- S Dwijonagoro
E Istikomah
Year: 2019
50 Teachings of Household Harmony at “Upacara Panggih” Javanese Style Bridal Ceremony in Yogyakarta
INCOLWIS
EAI
DOI: 10.4108/eai.29-8-2019.2289022
Abstract
Household harmony is the desire of all married couples. Harmony brings peace of life in the family so that the household lasts until the end of life. Early marriage harmony was taught in the Javanese bridal summoning ceremony. This naturalistic qualitative study was carried out to uncover the doctrine of marital harmony in 40 Yogyakarta Javanese bridal wedding ceremonies. Obtaining data is done by participant observation and in-depth interviews. The validity of the data by triangulation, sharpened by extended participation and repeated studies. Data analysis uses the tradition of Miles, Huberman, & Saldana (2014). The doctrine of family harmony in the summon ceremony is found in the ceremonial procedures and procedures. The ceremonial procedure is related to the act in the ceremonial summon, while the procedure is related to the equipment / tools used in the summon ceremony. The teachings of harmony can be grouped into (1) parental responsibilities, (2) mate selection, (3) happiness in the family, (4) husband's and wife's obligations, (5) filial piety, and (6) loving/ be generous to others by giving alms.