Partner Selection Process among Young Adults from Interfaith Family Backgrounds

This study explores the partner selection process among emerging adults from interfaith family backgrounds in Indonesia’s pluralistic society. Six participants were involved, including three individuals in interfaith relationships and three significant figures such as parents or close friends. A qualitative case study using thematic analysis was conducted through in-depth interviews to examine personal, relational, and social factors influencing partner choice. Findings show that emotional attraction, shared values, career support, and communication dynamics play central roles. Religious differences often trigger conflict, particularly within families and broader social contexts. Nevertheless, support from significant figures, open communication, and value negotiation help sustain these relationships. The study concludes that interfaith partner selection in emerging adulthood is shaped not only by personal preference but also by complex familial and societal influences, highlighting the importance of psychosocial support and inclusive perspectives in understanding interfaith couple dynamics.