Proceedings of the First International Conference on Democracy and Social Transformation, ICON-DEMOST 2021, September 15, 2021, Semarang, Indonesia

Research Article

Malee (Ashamed) Philosophy is a Defense Against Teenage Premarital Intimacy

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  • @INPROCEEDINGS{10.4108/eai.15-9-2021.2315805,
        author={Ernita  Dewi and Munawiah  Munawiah and Said Amirul Kamar and Intan Wirantika Putri},
        title={Malee (Ashamed) Philosophy is a Defense Against Teenage Premarital Intimacy},
        proceedings={Proceedings of the First International Conference on Democracy and Social Transformation, ICON-DEMOST 2021, September 15, 2021, Semarang, Indonesia},
        publisher={EAI},
        proceedings_a={ICON-DEMOST},
        year={2022},
        month={2},
        keywords={malee (ashamed); gender; manner},
        doi={10.4108/eai.15-9-2021.2315805}
    }
    
  • Ernita Dewi
    Munawiah Munawiah
    Said Amirul Kamar
    Intan Wirantika Putri
    Year: 2022
    Malee (Ashamed) Philosophy is a Defense Against Teenage Premarital Intimacy
    ICON-DEMOST
    EAI
    DOI: 10.4108/eai.15-9-2021.2315805
Ernita Dewi1,*, Munawiah Munawiah1, Said Amirul Kamar1, Intan Wirantika Putri1
  • 1: UIN Ar-Raniry Banda Aceh, Indonesia
*Contact email: ernita.dewi@ar-raniry.ac.id

Abstract

Malee (ashamed) is a demeanor that refuses to do something when in contradiction with the local value of religion and local wisdom in the Aceh’s lives today. The demeanor of Malee is shown when it comes to a man who is not they husband or they family. This behavior was instilled early in the parents of Aceh, for girls not so easily open a relationship with a man or anyone who wants to get close or got a desire for a despicable. For instance, as a girl, it would be a shame to welcome a male guest at home or to travel with a man somewhere quiet. This tenet is still deeply embedded in the lives of the Acehnese society. However, recently as social media influences and the spread of content leads to pornography, and also a chance for children and teenagers to get access to cell phones and the internet, the case of prenuptial relations more increase. Aceh has a philosophy of malee and running the law of syariat Islam affected by this free of life phenomenon. For that reason, this research is done to found the factor of dimming the shame that children and teenagers are less likely to be affected by the free life and valueless.